I came to a realization the other day. Having "list of friends" is actually quite dangerous. Not for me, but for others. They may get hurt because they don't see them on it, or haters could stop by and try to start petty drama.

The fact is, I'm a people person. I love who I love, like who I like, have indifference towards others, and hate very few. Some may disagree, but I know my own feelings. I have a hard time hating anyone, even if they've done me wrong.

I have taken down my list, because I felt it wasn't needed. My friends know who they are. If they're unsure, they can always talk to me. Don't sit around and wait for something to change if you don't do anything to help it.

Here's a simple way to figure it out:

If we talk, even on occasion. If we enjoy each others company. If we share our thoughts, interests, what happened during the day or evening. If when we think of each other, we smile, even if it's just on the inside.

If any of those come to mind, or anything similar to them, then it's pretty obvious we're friends. Maybe not the best of friends, but still friends. Any effort, big or small, towards building that friendship always counts, and means a lot.

My friends, all over the world, all over the internet, they know who they are. I don't need to list them as if that's all they are. They're in my heart, exactly where they belong.

~ I love you guys <3